Robin Williams brought us great laughter and joy, but perhaps
at his own expense. Some of the most talented people use humor to mask the pain
engrained so deeply with their torment. As a substance abuse counselor, being
present during the unveiling of their anguish is always heartrending, powerful
and overwhelming. Those who love Robin might
want to blame themselves but his work here was over. It’s nobody’s fault. I
once heard, “You didn’t cause it, you couldn’t control it and you couldn’t cure
it.” Substance abuse is not the problem, it’s the symptom and in many cases
addiction is a coping strategy to survive. He was always up. He was always on.
That’s not how the human body works. It needs respite. It needs calm. Frankly,
I am impressed with how long he was able to stay here. My guess is that his
death would have been so much sooner had he not had his lovely wife and
children. They are the reason, in my humble opinion, that he made it this long.
Their love made him want to live and I hope they can someday embrace his desire
to be with them. In multiple interviews I heard people stating that suicide is
a selfish act. It’s only selfish if people interpret, rationalize or decide
their feelings are more important [which is selfish] than the person actually
suffering. If Robin had cancer, was in excruciating pain and chose to stop
taking chemotherapy, nobody would blink an eye. They would bless and support
his decision. Nobody would blame him for wanting to stop the pain; nobody would
judge him or second-guess him because they would know that he gave it his darnedest
to stay here as long as he could. Depression is like a malignant cancer and is
very real. Please join me in a moment of silence and find it in your hearts to
thank Robin for his amazing contribution to this world, his strength to carry
on as long as he did and his courage to understand his limitations. In my
opinion, Robin was a gallant knight who conquered what he set out to achieve
and his time to let someone else carry the torch has arrived. God bless you Robin Williams, you are now the angel in heaven that you were here on earth.
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